Family PENTA

FAMILY PENTA 👨‍👩‍👧
The day our little ones come Earth side changes everything!
I am not talking about the tiredness, the lack of personal space and time or even the constant worries 🙃
I am talking about how the energy flow changes 💫
When a new member joins the Family, a whole new different dynamic takes place.
In Human Design, when three to five people come together, it creates a PENTA 🙏

While a Foundation reading offers insight into your individual Design, the Family Penta reading gives the ability to see how your Family dynamic works and how the energy flows in it 🙏

By learning how and where your family can be both functional and dysfunctional, it brings more awareness and acceptance of each person's place in the Family 🥰
My partner, our daughter and I are a dysfunctional Family 🤷🏻‍♀️ And there is nothing wrong with that.
Parenting with Human Design is just about awareness 😇

A Family PENTA highlights how the energy comes through in your Family on different matters :

Harmony & Flow,
Home,
Ressources,
Money & Demands,
Discovery,
The World, Discipline,
Planification,
Education,
Demonstration,
Tradition,
Past.

It allows you :
. to know and understand roles of each member of your family on the above topics
. to accept it and to let go the expectations

In my Family, I am meant to be home while my daughter is an outside girl with a need for more social interaction 🤪 Our Penta helped me to understand it and accepted to let her go to daycare a little bit (and I can assure you that I was really resisting to it a lot). Because my normal is not her normal. There is a lot of pressure in a PENTA. And it’s where the conditioning starts… in the Family 😓
The Penta seeks for homogenization while we can just focus on uniqueness and harmony 🧡

I mentioned in a previous post that our little one is showing us the Direction to take on a material aspect while my partner and I are bringing the ressources. You will say that it's normal that the parents bring ressources but when it's your kid who carries alone this energy in the Family, it can be something you want to look at closer.

Being aware of it allows me to not take it personally. It’s her emotions not mine. I just have to support her while she is living her wave. Just be present (and become wise about the emotions) 🙏

Knowing which gates are activated in your Solar Plexus Center can help you to understand how to manage those emotional waves, how to accept and release them and how to best understand and parent your little one (or yourself)🧡

Same when it's the children who are in the Discipline area. You don't want your kid to have the responsibility of it in the Family. They can bring this energy to the Family without feeling in charge of it if you are aware of it 🙏 And there is few thing you can put in place for that 😉

When some areas in the PENTA are missing, the energy is not flowy and some energy leaks appear. It can feel disharmonious but it's just showing you that it's not something important for the Family.
In mine, no one bring the energy of Planification. It's just not part of our Family dynamic 🤷🏻‍♀️Instead, we are better going through life in an more organic way. Trying to plan the next year holidays is not beneficial for us. Trying to force it, will not help us either (believe me I tried… I was the queen of planification 🤦🏻‍♀️)

The Penta is here to show you where conditioning can appear and can help to reduce the pressure to show up in a way that just doesn’t work for you or the person involved. Respecting everyone Design 🙌

In my family, no one brings Harmony either and the Theme of our Penta (there is a lot different theme according your Fanily dynamic) is telling us that we all are very individuals which can be challenging while evolving as a Family 😅 We could feel the pressure to be harmonious at all time and do thing all together... it will only be a conditioning leading to frustration (non self theme for us) 🙃

Some Family member can be totally out of the PENTA and not feel super confortable into the Family dynamic. In that situation, one-one relationship will be encouraged 👨‍👧

The Penta is super powerful and can take over the individual Design. Understanding how your Family energy works, helps you to accept your family as it is and that there is nothing to change ❤️

The Penta allows you to see each and respect Family members strengths and bonds 🙌